Mr Oppelaar's cousin, Jason Kelly, said: ''I purely blame police for it. He's getting chased and that's what young people do. They get scared and they take off,'' he told reporters.Mr Oppelaar's sister, Nicki, was also angry. ''My brother is dead now because the police chased this car to the point where he didn't want to stop.''
Mr Oppelaar's brother, Chris Mills, said: ''You have to ask who's responsible ... in some part it's the driver for doing the speeds he was doing, but mostly it comes down to the coppers ... what good's a stolen car?''
Mr Mills paid tribute to Mr Oppelaar as a larrikin who had many friends.
''He was a top bloke. He had trouble in his past, but he was starting to put all the pieces together and start a new life,'' he said.
-- Sydney Morning Herald Online, March 22, 2010 --
A mother, father, and four-month-old child were killed instantly on the weekend near Canberra after being involved in a car accident -- a tragedy. Their Mazda collided with a stolen car which had been driven through 2 red lights, seconds after a police chase was called off. The male-driver died after being arrested and taken to hospital, and the eighteen-year-old passenger of the stolen car is the only person left alive - in hospital and unconscious.
Although the ending of a life is never a joyful or wanted event, and my sympathies go out to the families of all involved, I just cannot help but think that the young man made the choices that led to his death - and the death of three innocent people. His family blames the police for chasing him - which is their right to do so - their choice to do so.
But, this young man chose to speed, run a red light - chose to run away from the police and the gaol term he may have received. Without that choice, the incident wouldn't have occurred, and the four-month-old child may have grown up one day to know its parents.
So who is to blame?
The policeman, fulfilling his role within society, attempting to arrest criminals?
Or the man who committed a crime of theft, speeding, and then running a red light into an innocent family?